Submitted by: justlivininthe
BULLSHIT, THIS IS BULLSHIT.
I don’t wanna sound disrespectfull but the fact you’re overweight is not the cause of not having a relationship. If you actually think it is, you got a problem you have to sort out even before losing weight.
I’ve been overweight since I quit dancing (4 years) and I had 3 relationships. You can think, ok they did not last. Yeah indeed. But as a matter o fact it was mutual reason or was me the one that ended em up:
1. Different schedules so no time to see eachother.
2. He was going through something and he was not ready for a relationship. So I decided that I should help him just as a friend.
3. He had to went back to his own country, so the best solution was end up the relationship.
And yes, I’m currently friend of all of them. And now I’m in another relationship with a gorgeous guy. And in between of all of them I had that thing called “fuckbuddy” and also one night stands.
And no those guys did not came from Mordor. They were cute, eachone in his own way. Had skinny, muscular, slightly chubby, average… And never had a problem to get them.
Why? Confidence. That’s the fucking key. I’m losing weight just for myself cause I liked more my body before and I want it back. Actually is not like my boyfriend agrees with it cause he likes my wide hips and soft stomach (LOL) but he supports me anyway.
So girls, the problem is not in your legs, hips, butt, stomach or arms… is in your head.
I did not want to Skype with my BF because I had bad hair day, no make up on and already wearing a lousy pijamas.
2 minutes later he sent me this screenshot and told me that was a pic of a cute thing he likes.
Sounds cheesy and normally I’m not into those things, but that made my day and felt so confident eventho I was not giving my best appearance.
All 16-25 year old girls who are losing weight, reblog this because I’d love to follow every one of you.
Probably it’s not the prettiest necklace. But it’s the prettiest in my eyes because is so fucking meaningfull.
This is a pick from my BF, he heart shaped it for me and gave it to me some weeks ago. I prefer this details than jewels, no doubt.
I’m so proud of being the owner of this. It’s plastic, but for me it has the same value as a diamond, well no, even more.
From my other blog, but worth to share in both.
